10 Ways to understand your man

These ten ways to understand your man have proven that men are easy to live with. Men are the simplest species I’ve ever seen in my life. No man is difficult, ignorance is what makes it difficult. If you want men to fall in love with you and your fiancé/husband to treat you like the greatest treasure on earth, you must understand what makes a man a man, the right to click, and how to enjoy a sweet, blissful, heaven on earth relationship/ marriage with him! Here are the 10 ways to understand your man.

1. Men have a first love

The first love of every man is his work. A man must succeed. Not making progress in life is like being impotent, he feels castrated! You must understand this and give him space to succeed.

This requires time, effort, focus, and sleepless nights. To demand he spends all his waking hours watching romantic movies with you is to turn him into a perpetual failure!

Idle ladies who have nothing sensible to do with their lives except disturb their fiancé at work per minute, per second to fill their empty life are a big turn-off! So every lady should watch out for this before u conclude that her man is difficult or does not love her anymore.

2. Men have the ego

He needs it to be the head of his home and succeed. You must distinguish between ego and pride. A man with a healthy ego will listen to you but firmly and lovingly let you know his final decision. A man with pride won’t listen to you at all, snob you, and treat you like trash!

A man with a healthy ego is not a dummy! Some women expect their men to take all their advice and follow all their instructions, that’s not possible! He can’t take everything. He will take the ones that make sense and put aside the ones that will land you in trouble.

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To understand your man is as simple as anything when you read and practice what this article is teaching you. He is the head. You can’t force your ideas on him, you can only advice, and the final decision lies in his hand. Dear Ladies always watch the mood of your man before advising or suggesting to him

3. Men are moved by the sight

It’s so amazing so many ladies are ignorant of this. Look, if you don’t want that guy to have s*x with you, COVER UP whenever you are with him. But this doesn’t really work out for some men; they still want to do it.

In marriage, you must deliberately make your husband chase you around for s*x, just one look at some wives, and all the sexual desire the husband has flown right through the window! Stinking mouth, bushy armpit, torn underwear, ragged pant, smelling wrapper, etc, etc.

Yet the man is surrounded by sweet-smelling, well-dressed, tantalizing, head-swooning babes at work! Try harder to understand your man.

You must keep packaging and re-packaging! Get a transparent bra that pushes the central focus forward, jaw-dropping lingerie, s*x-triggering perfumes and blow his imagination off as often as you can (this is strictly for the married) Single sisters please let’s learn from the married ones so as to have a blissful marriage we desire.

4. Men want peace of mind

Nagging, criticizing, shouting, yelling, abusing, and cursing can destabilize a man, you should minimize it as much as possible in fact, stop it together. That’s how to understand your man.

Some men hate coming home early because the troublesome wife will nag life out of them till late in the night! To understand your man, first and foremost, give him peace of mind.

Once he wakes up, she repeats the cycle till he leaves home! Men like that usually end up with mistresses or wives! Men run towards women who give them peace not shatter them to pieces.

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5. Men like quality food

Unless he didn’t give you enough money or he likes it. Concoction rice with blended pepper, onions, coconut oil, and seasoning is an insult to him!

Watery stew that drops to his elbow while eating is a big bomb on his head! Egusi soup that looks as if garri is sprinkled over a pot of water is a big slap on his face! His money should reflect what you cook, please! Maximize what you have, treat him like a king!

6. Men love to be praised

If you are a man-praiser, you will never lack a man’s love all your life! You will be pampered, loved, and cherished! That means you’ve worked harder to understand your man, and you are enjoying the benefits.

Every man responds to praise! Stingy, selfish, bitterly critical women who see nothing good in their men never have lasting marriages! Praise your husband/fiancé silly!

Appreciate his efforts in your life. Look out for his good qualities and sing them to his ears daily!

Real women love praising their fiancé/husbands and give them deep pleasure doing so, your man deserves it and he enjoys listening to it, that’s how to understand your man.

7. Respect him

Ladies who shout at their fiancé, order him around and disgrace him in public because she has a master’s degree in international marketing will stay a long time as single before she finds an old man to marry! You must be humble if you want to be under any man’s roof!

Respect is the food of every man. Learn to respect your fiancé, and show honor to your husband. Saying “yes sir” when appropriate won’t make you less of a woman! Learn how to talk to a man. Some women just don’t know how to talk!

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Never correct him in public, don’t send him on an errand in front of his, and stop making jest of him in front of the children, it’s bad. Additionally, if you don’t want to kill your relationship, always respect him. Ladies, please be warned!

8. Submit to him

God states it clearly, “wives, submit to your husbands.” Submit your body and other things when he needs them. If you have any trouble with that, ask God, not me. Why was Abraham madly in love with Sarah?

She didn’t allow her exceptional beauty to make her proud, she was a very submissive, respectful wife who called her husband “Lord.” Find a sweet name for your FIANCÈ today and make it part of you!!!

9. Support

Men want women who can support them whenever they need help. That is why lots of men are having affairs with colleagues at work because the colleague is eager to help when he needs it most while the one at home left him to handle his problems by himself. Why then did he get married? What is her role in his life as a

Both single and married women need to stand and be the “VIRTUOUS WOMAN” of our various homes today just to ensure you understand your man.

10. Men go through seasons

The season of little, the season of managing, the season of abundance! No man wants a gold digger who runs away when he has challenges only to show up when he has made it and has millions flowing in his account!

Men are not difficult at all. These and more are what make a man thick, thrive and enjoy the woman he has vowed to spend the rest of his life with. Can you have that kind of woman? Do you have what it takes to make your husband happy and fulfilled? Think about it.

Godspower Oparaugo

Godspower Oparaugo is a Nigerian writer and author of Decide Your Future. GPO is an acronym for Godspower Oparaugo, which has been built as a content brand name.

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